HOW TO BE A GODLY MOTHER

Do you know how to be a godly mother to your children?

In celebration of Mother’s Day, I will be sharing with you 8 biblical tips to become a godly mother to raise godly children.

Let’s dive in!

1. Spend time with God daily

A godly mother puts God first in everything (Matthew 6:33) and ensures that she spends time in the presence of the Lord daily, despite the tasks and to-do lists she has in a day. Surrendering yourself to God allows you to be led by Him in all things (Proverbs 3:6). This is why it is imperative to read and study God’s word and let it meditate in your heart (Psalms 1:2) so, that the wisdom of God can guide you through your days. It may mean that you will have to wake up a little earlier in the day, or during the children’s nap time to utilise that time to read God’s word. Figure out a time in the day that is best suited for you, and set an appointment to spend time in God’s presence.

2. Build your home

A godly mother stewards her home and takes responsibility for her resources to properly manage the home as a homemaker of the household (Proverbs 31:15, 21-22). She makes a house into a home. She observes her family as a faithful guardian in the home (Proverbs 31:27) and ensures that her household possesses growth of godliness. She builds up her home by building the foundation of her home in the Lord (Proverbs 14:1), she and her husband lead their family in worship, prayer, and the reading of the Bible.

3. Lead by example

Practice what your preach. Children absorb things very easily, what you say but most importantly what you do. If the words that you teach your children, align with your actions, then this will give evidence and prove that you mean what you say. Therefore, teaching your children to love God and to have a relationship with Him (Deuteronomy 11:19), will be magnified if they see you as their mother, spending time with God in prayer and reading the Word, also attending church and being surrounded by faith-filled people, and trusting in God through trials and tribulations. You will see your children obeying you and listening to your wise teachings, as they should (Proverbs 1:8, 6:20).

4. Pray for your children

A praying mother intercedes for her children daily. Her prayers protect her children from the lies of the enemy and the deception of the world so that her children prevent from comprising their faith by conforming to the patterns of the world (Romans 12:2). She prays for her children to have a teachable spirit so that they may be ready to receive salvation in their hearts and trust God. She prays for her children to be a part of helping their generation to be godly as they model their lives after Jesus.

5. Surround yourself with Christian friends

Having a godly community around you with people who love the Lord can be very helpful when in times of discouragement, such as not feeling like you are a good mother, their wisdom and encouragement can be very beneficial in ensuring that you are back on the right course, believing in God’s word over the lies of the enemy. Also, it is a great way to organise playdates with your children and theirs, and they are around children who are being loved and disciplined in a godly way.

6. Active in church

Being active in the church not only shows and teaches your children that this is a form to demonstrate your love for God (Colossians 3:23-24) and leading by example, but also it shows your kids that the Lord’s work is important. Therefore, when your kids see you serving God, they too will want to serve God. However, it is essential that there is a balance as a mother, if you are in a busy season, do not neglect your children or care for your home by serving very hard in church ministry. Balance is key!

7. Teach your children to love God

A godly mother trains her children in the way of the Lord and teaches them how to love God, and deepens their relationship with Him so that, when they grow older they do not turn away from the righteous teachings (Proverbs 22:6). She teaches her kids to love God and others and scripture commands us to (Matthew 22:37-39). Practical things to do is to teach them the basic principles of the Christian faith in a simple and easy way for your children to understand. Also, you can pray with your kids before going to sleep or first thing in the morning. You can read them bible stories (kid version) before they go to sleep and explain to them what the story means. Additionally, be prepared to give answers to questions that they may have about Christianity and what the Bible teaches (1 Peter 3:15), especially for teenagers and young adults e.g. topics on sex, dating etc.

8. Cheerfully serve your family unto the Lord

As a home missionary, a godly mother cheerfully serves her family unto the Lord without complaining, as she recognises that she has been appointed by Christ to serve Him in her home. Whatever she puts her hands to, she serves as though she is serving God and not mere people (Colossians 3:23-24). Her home is her mission field, anointing her home and making sure her children are spiritually protected by the Lord. Her service to the Lord and her family is done with a genuine love for God and is not performative. Her children are blessed by her and her husband gives her praise (Proverbs 31:28).

I pray this blog post blessed you with godly practical tips and wisdom to become a godly mother, and to help you raise godly children.

Leave a comment sharing what biblically tip you will apply to help you become a godly mother.

Stay blessed,

Divine L.